Want to be more confident, secure and magnetic in dating - and let go of anxious overthinking?
Then you are in the right place!
Recognize this?
You worry about whether the man you are dating is losing interest or pulling away
You constantly check your phone to see, if he wrote you back
You think that if he breaks up, you will be the one who is most alone, and he will move on quickly
You avoid showing your true self and instead try to be the women you think he wants, out of fear of being hurt
You feel anxious about whether the man you are dating is really serious or just having fun
You ruminate about conversations or text echanges and look for signs that something is “off”
You often end up with men, that offer you less time and attention than what you offer them
When what you REALLY want is this:
Feel so confident and secure in yourself, that you never worry about, whether a man is in to you or not
Be completely calm even if he hasn’t answered your last message from yesterday. In fact you have forgotten that you wrote him…
Feel irresistible and magnetic when you are on a date, and know that you are someone special, whether he likes you or not
Be so committed to yourself and your values, that you are not even tempted by a hot guy, if he isn’t emotionally available
Deeply feel that your self-worth does not depend on a man, and that no man can ever make you feel unlovable or not good enough
Not worry about a man losing interest - why would he? You’re a catch!
Hi, I’m Lærke,
I am a Dating Coach for strong, independent women who know they can achieve anything they set their mind to - except in their love life.
You can be the smartest woman in the room, manage a team or complex projects, and still spin into emotional overdrive when the man you are dating hasn’t texted you back.
As a driven high-achiever you tend to overfunction, work hard for everything in life and sometimes even self abandon in order to get the goal. Especially high achieving women with a tendency to anxious attachment can struggle in their love life. What brings you results in your professional life, only gives you anxiety, confusion and disappointment in your love life.
But it is never too late to let go of the patterns that don’t serve you, let go of the overfunctioning, overthinking and overperforming, and instead become a woman who is calm, secure and confident in her worth, who knows how to recognise a man of high character and who choose authentic connections over chasing unavailbility.
I can help you - book a free call to learn more.
Mission and Philosophy
My mission is to empower women who doubt their worth, abandon themselves and overperform to chase love - to start seeing their own value, choose themselves and get clear on what the true green flags are.
I have two mantras, that I firmly believe in :
It’s never too late
-to find love, to heal from a toxic childhood or to create an extraordinary life!
Love always begins with you
-the quality of your relationship with yourself always determines the quality of your romantic relationship, and that’s the best news, because it means that you have the power to uplevel your love life by working on your relationship with yourself!
Who I am, the facts…
I am Danish and lived a big part of my life in Copenhagen, until I decided to move to my dream city of all cities, Paris, in 2019.
I am certified from The Lifecoach School by Brooke Castillo in 2020.
I have a M.Sc. in Pharmacy and a postgrad education in Rhetoric & Communication.
I have an unusual CV as I have worked in both Government institutions, private companies and now as an entrepreneur in my own busines. I was a toxicologist, government official, teacher, medical affairs manager, journalist and now lifecoach.
I have been coaching since March 2020.
I was less than hopeful after dating for 14 years post divorce. In just 3 months I met the man of my dreams online using all the skills I learned from Laerke. It was worth all the effort, all inner self reflection and the time to develop both. I highly recommend Laerke for anyone who is serious about creating and living a purposeful life.
Beth, 59, US
As a single 48 year old woman I thought the "ship had sailed" for me to meet a man. This was the reason why I signed up with Laerke Nielsen. To say she has completely changed my perspective on finding love at my age is an understatement!
She has taught me so much about myself and why I have stayed single for so long. I now have my confidence back and am in the early stages of dating a lovely man. I cannot recommend her highly enough. I think every single smart woman should have a Laerke backing them. She is life changing. If you are thinking about signing up, just do it, you won't regret it.
Carmel, 48, Ireland
To choose you as a coach was one of the best decisions, I have taken… and the best journey. I can’t say enough how this 6-month transformation was beneficial for me. It helped me to believe and to accept myself, to develop self-awareness and to be selective. Thank you for being supportive and approachable, yet, objective and motivating.
Maya, 42, Bulgaria