Want to feel confident and secure in dating - and let go of anxious overthinking?
Then you are in the right place!
Recognize this?
You often worry about whether the man you are dating might be losing interest or pulling away
You constantly check your phone to see, if he wrote you back…
You avoid showing your true self and instead try to be the woman you think he wants
You try to mind-read to figure out whether he is really into you or just having fun
You overthink conversations and obsess about text messages, and you constantly see subtle signs that something is “off” and he is about to leave you
You fear rejection and abandonment more than anything else, and you work hard to keep a connection, even when you know it’s not working
What you REALLY want:
Feel so confident and secure in yourself, that you worry less about whether someone likes you, and focus more on how YOU feel about them in the early stages of dating
Be calm and focussed even if you have unanswered messages on your phone…
Feel amazing when you are on a date, and know that you bring something unique to a relationship
Trust yourself and know your values, so that you are not tempted by someone emotionally unavailable - even if he is hot!
Know that your self-worth does not depend on a man, and no rejection can ever make you less worthy or lovable
Be comfortable speaking up and setting boundaries in a calm and confident way, without fear or self doubt
Hi, I’m Lærke,
I am a Dating Coach for strong, independent women who feel competent and confident in their professional life, but who struggle in their love life.
You can be the smartest woman in the room, manage a team or complex projects, and still spin into emotional overdrive when the man you are dating hasn’t texted you back.
As a high-achiever you tend to overfunction, work hard for everything in life and sometimes ignore your needs and feelings, and instead push through to achieve the goal. If you also lean towards anxious attachment, you are likely to experience even more challenges in both dating and relationships.
The combination of high-achiever and anxiously attached drives you into all the “over-s” - overfunction, overgive, overthink, overperform, overanalyse and overattach. And as a result you feel anxious, confused and exhausted - while not enjoying dating and not meeting the right person.
But it is never too late to let go of the patterns that don’t serve you and become a woman who is calm, secure and confident in her worth, who knows how to be discerning and trusts herself in dating, and who doesn’t abandon herself or her values in the process.
If you are done feeling anxious and “not enough” and ready to create secure, authentic connections,
I can help you - book a free call to learn more.
Mission and Philosophy
My mission is to empower women who tend to doubt their worth, abandon themselves and overperform for love and attention. I help them feel confident, worthy and secure, get clear on their values and stay true to themselves, so that they can enjoy dating and create healthy relationships.
I have two mantras, that I firmly believe in :
It’s never too late
-to find love, to heal from a difficult childhood or create an extraordinary life!
Love always begins with you
-the quality of your romantic relationships always begins with the quality of the relationship you have with yourself. How you see and relate to yourself changes how other people perceive you. And this makes it even more rewarding to work on your self development.
Who I am, the “dry” facts…
I am Danish and lived most of my life in Copenhagen, until I decided to move to my dream city Paris, in 2019.
I am certified from The Lifecoach School by Brooke Castillo in 2020.
From earlier I have a M.Sc. in Pharmacy and a postgrad education in Rhetoric & Communication.
My CV is unusual as I have worked in both Government Institutes, private companies and now as an entrepreneur in my own busines. I was a toxicologist, government official, teacher, medical affairs manager, journalist and now lifecoach.
I have been coaching since March 2020.
I was less than hopeful after dating for 14 years post divorce. In just 3 months I met the man of my dreams online using all the skills I learned from Laerke. It was worth all the effort, all inner self reflection and the time to develop both. I highly recommend Laerke for anyone who is serious about creating and living a purposeful life.
Beth, 59, US
As a single 48 year old woman I thought the "ship had sailed" for me to meet a man. This was the reason why I signed up with Laerke Nielsen. To say she has completely changed my perspective on finding love at my age is an understatement!
She has taught me so much about myself and why I have stayed single for so long. I now have my confidence back and am in the early stages of dating a lovely man. I cannot recommend her highly enough. I think every single smart woman should have a Laerke backing them. She is life changing. If you are thinking about signing up, just do it, you won't regret it.
Carmel, 48, Ireland
To choose you as a coach was one of the best decisions, I have taken… and the best journey. I can’t say enough how this 6-month transformation was beneficial for me. It helped me to believe and to accept myself, to develop self-awareness and to be selective. Thank you for being supportive and approachable, yet, objective and motivating.
Maya, 42, Bulgaria