Confident, Magnetic and Joyful in your Love Life!

Through personalised coaching I teach you how to reprogram your thinking to let go of negative self-talk, worries and anxiety, and instead feel confident, worthy and secure and show up as a woman who truly knows her worth, who is not afraid of challenging situations and who also knows how to enjoy her love life - whether you are dating or in a relationship.

We set an intention before we start working together, and my goal is to help you get to a Love Confidence level of 9-10 out of 10. I will ask you to do the Love Confidence Quiz before we start coaching, and then we evaluate after 12 weeks.

I work with clients on a private 1:1 basis.

You can choose to work with me for 12 weeks in my most transformative program or you can choose from 6 weeks and up. All my 1:1 packages come with access to my written and voice message coaching in between sessions, 24 hours/day, Monday to Friday. You are never alone or stuck in a painful situation, when you work with me.

Book a free Confidence Call to explore the options of working together.

Group Coaching and other offers…

I occasionally offer group programs and one-off packages for a limited time and a limited number of clients. To know more about these offers, join my email list (by taking the Love Confidence Quiz or through the sign-up form on the front page) and be among the first the know!

How to choose the right coach

My best advice to you is to listen to my podcast - if you like it and find it useful, you will benefit even more from my coaching. Check also the testimonials here on the site.

I was less than hopeful after dating for 14 years post divorce.  In just 3 months I met the man of my dreams online using all the skills I learned from Laerke.  It was worth all the effort, all inner self reflection and the time to develop both.  I highly recommend Laerke for anyone who is serious about creating and living a purposeful life.
Beth, 59, US

To choose you as a coach was one of the best decisions, I have taken… and the best journey. I can’t say enough how this 6-month transformation was beneficial for me. It helped me to believe and to accept myself, to develop self-awareness and to be selective. Thank you for being supportive and approachable, yet, objective and motivating. 
Maya, 42, Bulgaria

These 5 months of coaching with Laerke had been a truly transformative experience for me.  After 10 years of confusion, indecisiveness and frustration, I find myself clear in my boundaries, and confident as a woman. I’m finally back into dating, and enjoying it! I didn’t really believe this was possible after being single for so long, but Laerke supported me every step of the way. Thank you for this journey!
Elina, 51, Portugal

People may see me as a highly successful woman—managing a flourishing hotel in Africa, running my own coaching practice, and living a life filled with gratitude for my close friendships and healthy children. However, in my romantic life, I often find myself falling back into the same patterns over and over. Laerke has been incredibly impactful on my journey. One of her greatest strengths is her ability to listen deeply, which creates a safe space for me to share my thoughts and feelings. Laerke has also helped me refine my communication skills, providing me with the tools to express my needs, desires, and boundaries more effectively. I am grateful for her presence on my journey as I strive for deeper connections and a more fulfilling romantic life.
Melanie, 48, The Netherlands

I have always struggled with self-confidence and have based my self-worth on what other people think of me. Before I started working with Laerke, I found myself unable to speak up for fear of being judged. After working with Laerke I was reminded that I am worthy and have something to offer to those around me regardless of other people’s opinions of me. This program has allowed me to be compassionate towards myself, as I would be towards others. It has shown me that my self-worth does not depend on others and that if I make a mistake or am not perfect it merely means that I am growing and developing as a human being. I would highly recommend Laerke’s program to others.
Mariana, 32, Paris

Life coaching with Lærke has helped me in so many ways. I have tried everything from hypnotherapy to group counselling, but I honestly think Lærke has helped me grow the most. She has helped me to understand how to look at my thoughts and understand them more deeply. After every session, I come away feeling so light and happy with a new sense of clarity within my mind. I think when I started with Lærke my confidence was at a 4 out of 10, however, now I think I am nearing an 8 or 9. She has helped me in so many ways and I will truly be forever grateful for her. I would recommend Lærke to anyone, it will be the best thing you ever do for yourself. 
Emily, 23, United Kingdom

Up until I experienced Laerkes' program, my self-confidence was never stable because it always depended on other people's opinions about me. I started reading books about self-development and had been in therapy with a psychotherapist to reduce the anxious feelings, but without much success. One evening, I watched Laerke's webinar and was amazed by her advice. I took notes and started to practice what she had taught us during the webinar - It worked wonderfully! As soon as we started the sessions one on one, I felt attentively listened to and very welcomed by Laerke. She asked the right questions that made me see things differently. Laerke nailed what my points to improve were and gently pushed me every week to take action in the direction of progress. Each week, I had concrete and achievable steps to realize. She knew exactly how to motivate me and clear any blockage I encountered. After each session, I felt empowered and much calmer because the anxiety lessened. It is the end of the program and it has changed the way I see myself - I have a much gentle and kind inner voice. I no longer let other opinions be my priority and when I feel discouraged or unmotivated, I use the tools that Laerke has given me. I have found a grounded selfconfidence that encourages me every day rather than letting me down :-)!! I highly recommend coaching with Laerke to anyone. She is such a talented and insightful life coach!
Agathe, 27, France

I find it difficult to open up and talk to others about things I’m struggling with, one of these things being my self-confidence. Before starting the program, I was avoiding situations that I was scared I would feel uncomfortable in; I was judging myself in a way that was doing no one any good! I found Laerke really easy to talk to, and she took me step by step helping me to reflect on situations I’ve experienced, their outcomes and how I treated myself afterwards. She broke things down in such a way that I could reflect on how I reacted and why I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. With her worksheets and small tasks, I’ve gained so much from this coaching in how I’ll approach future daunting, or previously avoided, situations remembering that if I’m not judging myself..then the chances are nobody is, and so what if they are! These sessions would be beneficial to any woman who finds herself getting nervous in certain situations, who’s afraid to try things in case she fails, or anyone who feels their confidence levels aren’t reaching a 9 or 10 out of 10. 
Aisling, 32, Ireland

In this program with Laerke I progressed more than in last years and all the self-help books I read. She knew what are the most important problems to face and to focus on. She made me realize that I am a lot stronger than I thought. She is really patient and explains everything clearly with different examples that are easy to understand. She gave me homework which was an excellent addition and guidance. It gave me something to do almost every day and in that way I developed perseverance and constant work, which is really important. I do admit it was a challenge, but it was a lot of fun as well. After every session she sent me notes so I could keep up with our ideas and also she would sent me sheet to fill in so I could think about some important question that were bothering me before. That actually made me realize some of my preoccupations were in my head and there was no reason to overthink certain things. Today I am a lot more self-confident, and I feel better in my skin. I feel motivated and I also have ideas where and how to work on my confidence, thanks to Laerke.
Helena, 31, Croatia